Standing out gives you the ability to create and impart a positive effect on other people. In return, you fascinate others; people will be naturally drawn to your personality. These traits are essential when it comes to building relationship with another person whether personal or professional.
The ability of a person draw people in is not innate. No one is born with a magnetic personality. It takes time and effort to hone one’s skills to become sociable and make an impact. Through constant development and experience, anyone can become attractive as far as personality goes.
To draw people in, you need to tap into your inner being and believe in yourself. But how do you do that? How can you unleash your remarkable personality and make connection with people that matters? Consider these tips:
Relax and Be Yourself
Stop trying too hard and relax! Being interesting is not about the effort you put into but the quality of the effort you give. Otherwise, you act awkwardly and may even put people off. The key is to not look and sound too forced. Let your natural personality show. Be gracious but be sassy too!
Going For Optimism
Optimistic people seem fascinating to most people mostly because we unconsciously want know how they remain so happy despite seemingly overwhelming challenges that come their way. If you surround yourself with positive people, you will create a lighthearted mood, exude confidence and draw people to you. This is a great trick if you are pitching a project. You want to illustrate the positive, not the negative!
So go ahead, look at the brighter side of things whenever possible and it will show in the energy you exudes! This might be a challenge especially if you’re going through something but as you practice, it’ll become much easier. Not only are you making yourself more attractive others, you are also improving your physical health as because a positive mindset helps inhibits stress levels and even enhance oxygenation of the blood.
Time to Come Out of Your Shell
When you’re not showing your true self, you are also limiting the amount of opportunities you create for yourself. You have unlimited potentials which you can unlock but only if you are open to trying new and exciting things. Worst of all, you lower your chances of becoming interesting when you refuse to venture out of your comfort zone!
By establishing boundaries for yourself, you build an impenetrable wall where people cannot see the real you. You’re confining yourself to a small space where people don’t get to know who you are. And if you’re shooting to making connections, you’re doing the exact opposite. You will come across as standoffish or worst, a bore. Don’t be afraid to try new things and see where they take you.
Don’t let your personal fears keep you from achieving more than you ever thought possible! Life is all about exploring whatever thrown at you, learning from your mistakes and making peace with yourself.
by: Jeffrey Slayter